Daryl McConnell

How do you get back your ex when she is in a rebound relationship? Read on to discover this powerful method.

It's important to firstly note that rebound relationships keep people from having to deal with the emotions of breaking up.  It is simply a tool to help people move on from a real love.

And that’s the key to getting back your ex.  She’s in a rebound relationship to deal with losing you.

It does not matter why she lost you or whose fault it was.  It doesn’t even matter who actually called the relationship off.  What matters is that you have a real love.

Remember this, virtually all relationships founded on real love can be saved.

If she’s in a rebound relationship, she will be focusing on what is wrong with your relationship.  If you were a “good guy” she’ll probably be hanging out with a “bad boy.”  If you were into philosophy, he’ll be watching soccer.  Or, vice versa.

The fact that she is actually focusing on the differences benefits you for two reasons.  Her attention is focused on you even when she’s with a new man.  Also, it gives you a chance to see what she’s looking for.

If she’s with someone as different from you as possible, it means that she was missing something in your relationship.  You can use the time she’s with rebound man to improve yourself.

Let the rebound relationship run its course.  As she spends time with her new man, she’ll see the flaws in him.  After a month or so with rebound man, you’ll look pretty good again.

So don’t crawl back to her right away.  Let her develop the idea that she misses the good things in the relationship.  When she’s ready to make a move, be magnanimous.  Be a new and improved boyfriend, but don’t do the chasing.

Consider some specific steps to take when you want to get back your ex:

· Don’t try to convince her that you are her one and only love.  Let her discover this on her own.

· Don’t apologize profusely.  If you did something wrong, you say sorry and move on. 

· Don’t promise to change.  You are who you are and that’s who she fell in love with.

· Don’t try to make her see that it wasn’t your fault.  She will come to appreciate that over time – but only if you haven’t made her invest energy in defending her position that it was your fault.

· Never beg her to take you back.

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